Did Paul Westerberg Love Brideshead Revisited THAT Much?!??!

Here's Paul Westerberg's final verse for the Replacements' classic Bastards of Young:

The ones love us best are the ones we'll lay to rest
And visit their graves on holidays at best
The ones love us least are the ones we'll die to please
If it's any consolation, I don't begin to understand them

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand here's from Evelyn Waugh's 1948 novel, The Loved One:

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